If A Man Wants U

Can i say i'm lucky enough there few person trust me till everything they also told me???

This email i received it last year November when the fren of mine told me how cruel his ex-hubby are...she told me his hubby have the feeling of divorce but he doesnt dared to speak out...even when in court my fren does all the talk...she told me how useless his ex-hubby are...her hubby felt sorry drag her into this deep shit and send her this email...I almost forgotten about this email and few days ago i received this email again by other frens of mine...

sorry folks as i'm goin to attend my grandpa ceremony at cemetery at 2 pm so not much i can post...as i said anything happen life must go on so thre you go another post...lol


the 1st time i received its tittle 'If A Man Wants U' and few days ago i received mia its tittle 'Hear What Oprah Have To Say About Men......so true...' i chosed the 1st one that being send by my fren from her ex-hubby to her as it more compiled... ;)



Ladies,
The advice seem simple, yet if ya think about it, it sends a very powerful
message!
Without realising most of the time we ignore the fact that he is as such and most of the time we are willing to give in even though it is not the real us!!! Giving in is love but only if it is appreaciated.
God Bless!!!
If A Man Wants U

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you,
nothing can make him stay.

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or
spirit) to save you from heartache.

3.Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to
be.

4.Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what
makes you truly happy.

5. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."A friend wouldn't mistreat a
friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is
stringing you along, then he probably is.

6.Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better!

7. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

8. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any
differently?

9. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

10.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you,
speak up.

11.Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

12. You cannot change a man's behavior.Change comes from within.

13.Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he
has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He
is a man, nothing more nothing less.

14.Never let a man define who you are.

15. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on
you.

16. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.

17.You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way
street.

18.You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

19.You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.

20. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

21. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

22. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.


23. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you
need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.


Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone smile, another
rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it takes a minute
to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them
and an entire lifetime to forget them.


"Passion without intelligence is blind...
and intelligence without passion is dead."
Source: Unknown




p/s:thanks everyone for your wishes...i really appreciated it...i dont know there so much people still cared about me... ;)
btw last nite my aunty told me and my father that one of my cousins dreamt before about my grandma told her that since no one want to take cared of grandpa i will took him away and take cared of him...hard to believe huh but i believe it as when my grandma passed away,she appear in one of my aunty dreamt and told her to burn the brown' sarong' for her that in the cupboard in her room...we go to her room and found it... ;)