Saturday, September 02, 2006

If A Man Wants U

Can i say i'm lucky enough there few person trust me till everything they also told me???

This email i received it last year November when the fren of mine told me how cruel his ex-hubby are...she told me his hubby have the feeling of divorce but he doesnt dared to speak out...even when in court my fren does all the talk...she told me how useless his ex-hubby are...her hubby felt sorry drag her into this deep shit and send her this email...I almost forgotten about this email and few days ago i received this email again by other frens of mine...

sorry folks as i'm goin to attend my grandpa ceremony at cemetery at 2 pm so not much i can i said anything happen life must go on so thre you go another

the 1st time i received its tittle 'If A Man Wants U' and few days ago i received mia its tittle 'Hear What Oprah Have To Say About true...' i chosed the 1st one that being send by my fren from her ex-hubby to her as it more compiled... ;)

The advice seem simple, yet if ya think about it, it sends a very powerful
Without realising most of the time we ignore the fact that he is as such and most of the time we are willing to give in even though it is not the real us!!! Giving in is love but only if it is appreaciated.
God Bless!!!
If A Man Wants U

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you,
nothing can make him stay.

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or
spirit) to save you from heartache.

3.Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to

4.Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what
makes you truly happy.

5. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."A friend wouldn't mistreat a
friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is
stringing you along, then he probably is.

6.Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better!

7. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

8. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any

9. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

10.Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you,
speak up.

11.Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

12. You cannot change a man's behavior.Change comes from within.

13.Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he
has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He
is a man, nothing more nothing less.

14.Never let a man define who you are.

15. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on

16. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.

17.You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way

18.You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

19.You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not

20. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

21. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

22. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.

23. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you
need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone smile, another
rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it takes a minute
to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them
and an entire lifetime to forget them.

"Passion without intelligence is blind...
and intelligence without passion is dead."
Source: Unknown

p/s:thanks everyone for your wishes...i really appreciated it...i dont know there so much people still cared about me... ;)
btw last nite my aunty told me and my father that one of my cousins dreamt before about my grandma told her that since no one want to take cared of grandpa i will took him away and take cared of him...hard to believe huh but i believe it as when my grandma passed away,she appear in one of my aunty dreamt and told her to burn the brown' sarong' for her that in the cupboard in her room...we go to her room and found it... ;)


Blogger angel said...

Thanks for sharing... take care and have a good rest, yeah?

1:30 PM  
Blogger Kenny Ng said...

That's quite true, majority men are like that. But I just want to be myself.

I dreamt before my grandpa came back together with my grandma and whole family were waiting for me to come back. After a week I went back during holiday and less than 24 hours my grandma passed away.

Take care Ah Nel...

7:26 PM  
Blogger Simple American said...

Once you divorce, you should treat the other person as if dead. No relationship. Not greeting at the mall or phone calls. Just stay away. It's the best. Hope I never divorce.

Hope you and your family can share good memories. Certainly your grandparents would want that.

12:13 AM  
Anonymous may said...

this post, I like!! must take notes oredi... *gets pen & paper*

take care, ya... :)

12:49 AM  
Blogger Kenny Ng said...

Ah Nel... happy birthday oh brader!

12:59 AM  
Blogger **L-Y-N** said...

Nel...sorry to heard about your grandpa...anyway sending my condolences to ur family memebers... it's ur Bird day....
Happy Bird day to U
Happy Bird day to U
Happy Bird day to Anak Msia
Happy Bird day to uuuuuuuuuu


1:28 AM  
Blogger Lin Peh said...

Heppi birdday AhNel ! ;-) May your kkc grow big big, long long and strong strong and get manys manys piaomeis this year ! ;-)

9:20 AM  
Blogger nyonyapenang said...

happy birdday ah nel! many sayangs to you. **muaks**

11:12 AM  
Blogger ah nel said...

angeliu :u r welkam...i'm in ofiz worr now???

kenny :tenk q for ur sapot as i tot i wil kena hunt down by those men after this

Take care Ah Nel...this sentence seem so scary ler???just like leaving lidat... :)

sa :woiii..what hope???definately no divorce allowed... ;)

thanks...sure we will kept those good memories... ;)

may :print it out and stick on ur car,bedroom,ofiz and

kenny :tenk q brader... :)

lyn :tenk q...its reli a bird

linpeh :tenk q for the wishes and i accept it but i got piaomeis i send to you... ;)

nyonya :tenk q...wuahhh...early morning kena **muaks** now i got full spirit of blogness in ofiz... ;)

11:30 AM  
Blogger AceOne said...

wuahh..birdday lagi ka?

Happy birdday to ya.

12:13 PM  
Blogger ah nel said...

ace :my bird lift up now say tenk

2:10 PM  
Blogger titoki said...

Ah Nel,

Thanks for this post. Really. Thank you. :)


11:45 PM  
Blogger ah nel said...


You are welkam...i hope this post taught you something... ;) *run away b4 i kena whack by other male reader*

Ah nel

10:48 AM  

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